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9/11Caught in Narcissist's Pendulum: Romantic Jealousy and Sex
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- Publication date
- 2022-02-07
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- Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 4.0 International
- Topics
- relationships, intimacy, jealousy, regulation, narcissist, psychopath, borderline, codependent, histrionic, separation, abandonment, anxiety, clinging, fusion, merger, possessiveness, romantic, idealization, lovebombing, grooming, shared fantasy, sex, services, narcissistic supply, intimate partner, cheating, infidelity, anticipatory, indifference, asexual, cerebral, somatic
- Language
- English
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- 82.8M
The narcissist is incapable of attachment, bonding, and positive emotionality
He is possessive of his women only in two situations:
GRANDIOSITY/UNIQUENESS
1. When he is acquiring a woman and she chooses another man over him for sex only or for more, thus disrupting the process of co-idealization;
UTILITARIAN/INSTRUMENTAL/TRANSACTIONAL
2. When in a shared fantasy and he risks losing the 3 Ss that she provides him with (sex, services, narcissistic or sadistic supply).
Similarly, he is interested in sex only in two situations:
GRANDIOSITY/UNIQUENESS
1. As a somatic "player" in short term conquests (but not in casual sex with promiscuous non-discriminating women and not with the conquered women);
UTILITARIAN/TRANSACTIONAL/INSTRUMENTAL
2. As a cerebral in the lovebombing phase which precedes the shared fantasy (but not later).
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He is possessive of his women only in two situations:
GRANDIOSITY/UNIQUENESS
1. When he is acquiring a woman and she chooses another man over him for sex only or for more, thus disrupting the process of co-idealization;
UTILITARIAN/INSTRUMENTAL/TRANSACTIONAL
2. When in a shared fantasy and he risks losing the 3 Ss that she provides him with (sex, services, narcissistic or sadistic supply).
Similarly, he is interested in sex only in two situations:
GRANDIOSITY/UNIQUENESS
1. As a somatic "player" in short term conquests (but not in casual sex with promiscuous non-discriminating women and not with the conquered women);
UTILITARIAN/TRANSACTIONAL/INSTRUMENTAL
2. As a cerebral in the lovebombing phase which precedes the shared fantasy (but not later).
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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